Tuesday, November 17, 2009

♥Support (n.):

Ohhhhhhh man I am eyes-stinging tired (physically, mentally, emotionally). But, before I go to bed I must get this blog outta my head. Now that the legal snowball is rolling, I feel the weight of my situation begin to slowly settle on my mental capacity. I tell ya, a divorce can make a girl go crazy or turn pre-maturely grey (dear Lord, please no). I would be one dramatically melting mama if I did not have my support group. They are everything to me these days. And I'll tell ya about 'em:

Lisa, My Body guard.
This girl can hold her own- and anybody else's, for that matter. I whine about something he's said or done that hurt my feelings and she's all about driving that half-day's trip to open a can-o-whoop-ass on him (it's funny, the image that comes into my head when I envision that battle). If you ever need somebody to punch the bully, Lisa is your woman.

Ashley, My Eternal Ray Of Sunshine.
It doesn't matter how big or black those stormy clouds look as they roll into your life- Ashley can dispel any fear or anxiety with a smile and an encouraging word. I've come to depend on her bright outlook to pull me out of whatever muck I may be sucked in by.

Jennifer, My Legal Counselor.
She's a been there, done that kinda lady with the most adorable boys you will ever come across. Not only has she given me a point-by-point on what to expect over the next few months, she let's Mal play with her offspring. Mal loves her boys. SRSLY. I would never trade her for the world.

Jenn, My Sista From Anotha Motha.
Jennnnnnnnnnn, my heart-warming, compassionate, empathetic and supportive goddess. I don't know where I would be without this blessed woman. We fell out of contact for nine years and I happened to find her on Facebook just months before the poo hit the fan. I know that it was no coincidence that God brought her back into my life at the exact moment that He did. She is a gem.

Naomi, The Bestest Co-Blogger and Mama-Friend a girl could ask for.
Since the day I found out I was pregnant, Naomi has been my personal doctor, advice counselor, pharmacist, taxi and lunch buddy. Every mama needs a mama-friend that she can bounce ideas, fears and questions off off. I haz Nomz. We laugh together; cry together and get angry together. I will never let her go.

Put all of these women together into one good looking guy and even Edward Cullen himself couldn't compare. *sigh*

Of course, my family are also vital threads that make up my net of support. But, these are the women in my life that have really carried me through some dark times. I love each and every one of you. Thank you for being so good to me. I would not be able to be as strong as I {seem} without you right there beside me.


firststarontheleft@gmail.com said...

You act like it's hard for us to adore you or something! ;)

It's a brand new adventure but we're going to be here for you (and that short ball of wonder with long eyelashes you've created, for that matter) every step of the way. We have crafts, humor, so much love for you & plenty of CHIKIN to see you through.

One step at a time, and we're always here to keep you steady <3

Love you! xoxoxoxox
- Ashley

Nomz said...

Life is completely unpredictable. Obviously, who would have guessed you'd in the spot you're in? What kind of friends would we be if we dropped the ball when things got hard??

We'll always, always be here for you. Just like you are for us. And I love Mal like he's my own...I'd give anything for the both of you.

<3 ya girlie, I cant wait to see how you shine through this!


Junbzee said...

Love ya so much sweetie. We'll get you through it. I'm here to lean on as much as you need. I can't wait for this ugly mess to be over for you and Mal. I think it's time to bake some cookies. set a fire. and watch some Edward. :)

Anonymous said...

What a nice post. I feel all warm and fuzzy and extremely jealous! ;) My two girl friends live 10 hours away. I would love to have a support group like that closer to home.
I hope the rest of this journey is too tough for you, and if it is, at least you have some awesome friends to turn to.

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