tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8209639647705729860.post6988413522167139202..comments2023-06-10T06:29:26.368-06:00Comments on Daily Offensive (baha!): ** Don't Settle! **Daily Offensive (baha!)http://www.blogger.com/profile/03047182991316003595noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8209639647705729860.post-83087089538221356442009-05-08T18:03:00.000-06:002009-05-08T18:03:00.000-06:00Wow...I can so relate to you "Anonymous Blogger". ...Wow...I can so relate to you "Anonymous Blogger". I so feel the same way. The minute the ring was put on the finger...HE doesn't have to perform or care/romance you/me deeply anymore. So sad...truly sad because we women 'hang in there'...NO MATTER what.<br /><br />I am a women so full of love and romance...and my husband doesn't care, see it or desire it. His life now, after well over 15 years, includes doing crossword puzzles, reading the newspaper, playing solitare on the computer...shall I go on? Some day, after it's too late, I will be gone or in another man's arms that wants the love, the romance, the care, the desire...from me.<br /><br />Hang in there. Or not. God will stay with you no matter what your decision is.<br /><br />When is ENOUGH...ENOUGH??? Your sanity is so much more important.....<br /><br />I as a women in the same situation knows what I want...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8209639647705729860.post-72666464523174411432009-05-07T12:13:00.000-06:002009-05-07T12:13:00.000-06:00Well hello anonymous guest blogger. We appreciate...Well hello anonymous guest blogger. We appreciate you pouring your heart out for all the world to see. What a crazy emotional ride, to not only feel all those things, but put it out there so willingly. THANK YOU.<br /><br />I thank you, mostly because I think that this is the hearts cry of many many women. I think, a lot of marriage failures start failing before they begin. Mostly because of falling in to temptation, and also falling in love with <I>what could be</I>. Know first and foremost, that you are not alone. And you are in a battle, that is not an easy one.<br /><br />It will get better. If nothing else, because you'll learn that if things dont change, you have to seek satisfaction in God, and yourself, and eventually, your heart will be ok with that. I also suggest marriage counseling. While that didnt work for me, if both hearts truly are in it, it could salvage your relationship.<br /><br />Im not therapist. Im not even on the high side of life experience, but I do know, that those words, will hit more than one woman, and hopefully man, hard. <br /><br />I think the biggest point for me was....take. your. time. Ladies...dont just jump in to a relationship because it feels ALL RIGHT, and assume that it always will. Time will tell all...and baby steps are key I think, to knowing that things will work. All things WORTH it, dont come easy.<br /><br />NomzDaily Offensive (baha!)https://www.blogger.com/profile/03047182991316003595noreply@blogger.com